As I go through these monumental life shifts, these words from Mary Allison have brought me comfort.
“It's extremely rare to see 2 people in a relationship 4 the pure expansion of human consciousness, but when you do, the magnetic energy they emanate is nothing short of holy.
Most people use relationships as coping mechanisms. They haven't grieved something from their past and instead of confronting their inner world they grasp outwards, sometimes clinging 2 whatever object their hands find.
Anytime a relationship (or friendship) is used as a form of escapism, it slows down your path & eventually causes chaos in ur field.
Holy relationships, or friendships, emerge through radical self honesty. When 2 people are willing to not only open their hearts to one another, but to source itself, the connection becomes a transmission for elevated consciousness to enter through. This creates a prism effect, where the light their fields emit cascades farther into the collective. Connection has the potential to unroot human consciousness from the medieval/dark ages of consciousness, bringing it closer to an age of divinity.
Often, people go into relationships by way of hiding themselves, pretending to be that which they are not. This produces a subtle tension throughout the relationship that resorts in blame/shame tactics which turn a once romantic connection into a battle with the "enemy".
The ego subconsciously wants an enemy to cast its shadow upon. This way the ego doesn't have to take responsibility for its own path. The incapacity to take responsibility for the path uwalk is a mode of living in denial.
In a holy connection, both parties take full responsibility for their shortcomings and calmly grow into healthier states of consciousness. Relationships, friendships, can be one of the most powerful catalysts for metaphysical growth, so long as both people are willing to look at themselves.
When I see 2 people who are raw & vulnerable with one another, who are unafraid 2 delve into their shadows without casting blame or shame onto eachother during this fragile yet powerful process, I see incredible potential for humanity.”
Here is to the power of connection. ♡
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